In this new internet age, the word feminism gets thrown around a lot of the time, accurately at times, and misunderstood. As wonderful as it is, social media is also a site of illumination, in that it is a hotbed of misinformation. Scroll through your newsfeed and you’ll find women and men passionately debating, some rushing to the defense of feminism as a movement of empowering women, and others destroying it as a vehicle of rebellion, or a weapon of male-bashing....CONTINUE READING THE ARTICLE FROM THE SOURCE>>>
We are living in a time when social media influencers, content creators, and random online comments are shaping people’s perceptions of feminism. On X (Twitter), Instagram, and TikTok, we see feminism being distorted. Some claim feminism is making women overly “independent” or “unmarriageable,” while others use it as a cover to conceal toxic, exclusionary discourse.
Regrettably, this noise had the effect of confusing. Some women shun being labeled as feminists, not wanting to brand themselves as aggressive or anti-family. Others misunderstand feminism as a blanket license to denounce men or denounce tradition indiscriminately.
And amid the chaos, there are many voices, true feminists, working diligently to enlighten, educate, and provide space to think on gender equality.
Below is a breakdown of what feminism is, what it is not, and why it’s so crucial to get the message correct.
1. Feminism Is Not Man-Hating
One of the most poisonous myths surrounding feminism is that it espouses hate for men. This myth has been propagated by detractors who aim to malign the real agenda of the movement. Feminism does not teach women to hate men; it teaches women to fight against patriarchy, not a gender, and a system of oppression that involves both genders and others. Feminists are aware that men are not the enemy; some men are feminists, and they join forces with the women in demanding justice and equality. To desire equal rights doesn’t imply the desire to annihilate or dominate men; it implies the desire to build a world in which both genders can coexist with mutual respect and parity.
2. Feminism Is Not Female Supremacy
Feminism is not a matter of reversing the hierarchy and setting women at the top of the hierarchy. It’s not a matter of women ruling men and retaliating against centuries of gender-based discrimination against them. Feminism is a matter of balance, and not hierarchy. Feminism loses its cause when it is being used as a tool of oppression rather than a tool of emancipation.. Genuine feminists are not seeking one gender to rule the other, but a society in which men and women both have equal opportunities, visibility, and worth.
3. Feminism Is Not a Rejection of Family or Marriage
There’s a prevalent misconception, among traditional or conservative quarters, one of which is that feminism is calling on women to forego marriage, family, and motherhood. Nothing can be farther from the truth. Feminism is all about choice and respect for choice at its core. If a woman chooses she wishes to be a stay-at-home homemaker, that is her choice. If she doesn’t wish to marry and wants to focus on a career, that is also her choice. What feminism will never tolerate is social pressure that demands a woman get married, or that she’s only valuable as somebody’s wife or mother. A feminist may love her family, put her marriage first, have children, and fight for women’s rights.
4. Feminism is not anti-femininity
Feminism doesn’t require you to trade in your feminine side or dress a certain way to achieve respect. There’s no one “feminist look.” You can wear high heels, bright lipstick, and a flower-printed dress, and scream concerning women’s rights on the rooftops. You can wear sneakers and a sweatshirt and remain feminine. Feminism teaches: Be yourself. Love yourself. Femininity is not something the movement believes is weak or outdated, and is open to all varieties of womanhood, tough and soft, traditional and modern.
5. Feminism is not a license to be insulting
In the name of feminism, there have also been a few who have taken the movement as a pretence to use as a license to bad manners, from rudeness and hostility to even disrespectfulness toward others. True feminism, though, is founded upon conversation, equality, and empathy. It’s not a pretence to denigrate men or other women. It’s not a pretence to arrogance or pride. Feminism involves dismantling systems of oppression, not destroying people. As women work to claim space, voice, and visibility, it needs to come with dignity and discernment.
So, What Exactly Is Feminism?
Feminism is a powerful and necessary movement that helps women reclaim their voice, their rights, and their place in society. Feminism is about choice, freedom, and equality.
Feminism battles for women’s rights to education, leadership, equal pay, safety, and respect. In a world today, where women still suffer from gender-based violence, pay disparity, and societal pressures that limit their potential, feminism is not just relevant, it’s essential.
We don’t want to distort its message, and we don’t want the press to distort it for us. We need to educate ourselves and the public on its true meaning. Feminism isn’t fighting people, it’s fighting injustice.
To women, feminism belongs to you too. You don’t have to give up your cultural identity or your values to be a feminist. You don’t have to yell to be heard. You don’t have to be perfect to speak up.
Feminism is living in your authenticity, standing up for other women, and holding space for every girl to imagine without boundaries. Let’s not let ignorance divide us. Let’s educate ourselves, stand together, and on purpose, because the true meaning of feminism is freedom…CONTINUE READING>>