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Tragedy struck in Afashio, a community in Etsako West Local Government Area, as five people have reportedly died after allegedly consuming poisoned food. The suspected culprit, identified as Aisha Suleiman, a 16-year-old girl and ex-girlfriend of one of the victims, has been arrested by police after an attempt by local youth to lynch her on October 29. ...READ THE FULL STORY FROM SOURCE ↔️
The incident, captured in a video circulating on social media since Wednesday, depicts the aftermath of the poisoning. The deceased include Emmanuel Elogie, 19, his current girlfriend Ada Samuel, 16, and three friends: Samuel Ayegwalo, Jeffrey Ayegwalo, and a young man identified as Nurudeen.
Edo State Police spokesperson Moses Yamu confirmed the arrest in a statement on Thursday, detailing that officers were notified on October 26. According to Yamu, Emmanuel’s father, Elogie Ezekiel, had visited his son’s apartment early that morning and discovered the tragic scene. Upon entering, he found Nurudeen’s body in the corridor, and further inside, the bodies of his son Emmanuel and Ada Samuel were found together on a bed in the bedroom. The siblings Samuel and Jeffrey Ayegwalo were discovered in the sitting room.
The bodies were transported to the hospital, where medical personnel confirmed all five deaths.
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