“I Woke Up Because I Felt Something Poking Between My Legs”- 6 Women on Being Violated By People They Least Expected. 6 women speak on being violated by people close to them. People usually think that when women or young girls experience sexual assault or abuse, it’s because they were careless or hanging around the wrong people. I think it’s one of the reasons why Ochanya, may her soul rest in peace, hasn’t gotten justice..Full content / Read original.